“I feel X.”
“I feel Y.”
You may actually feel how you say you feel. But that does not change how you actually are.
Two people could be in the same place — same temperature, same conditions.
One “feels” warm and the other “feels” cold.
Those feelings do not change the thermometer.
The temperature is what it actually is. Read the thermometer.
People perhaps should bear some facts in mind before they go pushing how they “feel” on other people.
The best of us will and do first stop and look at the thermometer. Then look at what they can do to or look within themselves — but in any event will be mindful of the difference between fact and feeling.