Children and cookie cutters

Those against equal parenting time of children of divorce as a default rule complain of it as displaying a cookie-cutter mentality.* That’s the objection to equal parenting plans like the 2-2-5-5 or 7-7 or 2-3-2 schedules.

When you look closely at what happens in divorce you will see that in actuality there is no opposition to a cookie-cutter mentality.

The opposition is to the shape of the cookie cutter.

The commonly-used cookie cutter is to give the children to the divorcing/divorced wife and to turn the children’s father into an uncle with every other weekend and maybe a dinner night visitation. The so-called 12-2 schedule.

The every-other-weekend-for-father cookie cutter is apparently perfectly fine for ex-wives. Yummy they might say. (That extra blob of dough in the 12-2 parenting order makes for a tasty extra in the child support payment.)

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